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  • He left me, just like that.
    He doesn't need me in his life any more he has her instead.

    We were married for 38 years and together for almost 41.

    How do you deal with that? I thought we were everything to each other, he was everything to me.

    I still think 'I must tell him that when I get home....' and then I remember.

    How do you just forget all those years together? How can he be happy when I'm so utterly devastated?

    This happens to so many people, but it wasn't supposed to happen to me. I'm sure everyone thinks that.

    My life is full of him and us, I can't disentangle me from us, it's like trying to pull the ivy off the front of the house, it leaves tiny roots all over the surface. Doesn't he feel my roots on his skin?

    Why can't life have a fast forward button, so I can be over this now instead of later?
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