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  • When you are with someone you love you experience so many beautiful things and have so good conversations and you ended up feeling so happy that sometimes all you wish it's to have the chance to meet that person soon again.

    But sometimes the line that separates love from need seems to be so thin...! And we forget that love is a gift and actually we shouldn't ask for it. However sometimes we do, putting the other person in the difficult situation of feeling forced to correspond us.

    I think it's unfair to go and meet someone only because you just want to be kind or because you are afraid of the consequences that saying "No" could have. Furthermore it doesn't work the same way when you meet someone because you want to meet that person as when we you go there because you wasn't able to deny the invitation.

    In modern life, silence offers the chance to communicate something without saying anything. The problem it's that silence offers multiple interpretations and that today, most of the people are so used to get a quick answer that they get a bit angry if you decide to dissapear for a few days and you miss some phone calls, facebook messages, e-mails etc.

    Maybe there is a third way that preserves both your love for a person and the need to be alone, which is the difficult task of saying "No" with the most delicate, sincere and lovely words that you can find.
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