Rome is waking and she is sleeping. Its a pretty morning - a thrill to not be somebody other than me. It has been ten years. Still amazed she and I get along so well?

When we planned our marriage we tried to write vows to each other. Rules for a happy household. I have been to weddings where the couple makes a promise not smoke in the house, or vow a life of creativity, or to resist driving by voice from the backseat ... we tried to write something clever - settled on unconditional.