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  • "There is no reality, only perception",
    "You can do what ever you set your mind to"

    It's sayings like these we or at least I grew up with,among a whole bunch of others mind you, many contradicting statements, many that never even made sense regardless of how i tried to spin it.... then came the changing statement: "There is no spoon"

    We've all heard it in the movie The Matrix (Warner Bros, 1999) , a story about a man who let the question bug him, the question, What is the matrix?,

    In My version of the Matrix and through my life, I was always told to think, use my brains, and think out of the proverbial Box as opposed to the spoon analogy!

    For the sake of this , we will see the Spoon as the the Problem/Situation, i will refer to it as the BOX, the mental box..

    So i did....i thought, and through my many trials and trails I realised an important truth, which was in the form of a question, what box???? what is this box you people refer to???? I obviously gathered they were referring to the case of when given a situation, think around and through other avenues, and not the problem itself, for solution, especially since its a hard problem or situation.

    But isn't that what every one does????

    Apparently i thought that was a valid question, people threw words like genius, intellectual, brainiac, nerd, and on one occasion i was the mad scientist... I'm not special....I'm curious....that's all...
    Anyway point is i didn;t buy it, i knew things and i learned things, but that wasnt enough, the question is.....Why?, i suppose the question of why is the secret to many a problem.

    This lead me to a life changing conclusion, this was the box "they" were so aptly referring to was the why factor, people have stopped asking themselves, WHY??? sure they ask others, and in many an instance the person expected to know is often ridiculed or made to feel as if they "should've" known....

    Slow down there....pause, say what? and i ask :

    " i ,should, know this? , why...don't you?"

    The typical response is generally along the lines of "I'm not as smart as you are." or " Not everyone thinks like "that" , that's why I'm asking you?".


    the asking of "Why" , is a continous flow of neverending questions, the other part is, what are going to do to know this "thing" that you do not....

    The problem is folks, along with the failing to ask ourself why, we also have become to lazy to figure things out by ourselves, well being all wrapped up in the bliss of a social and technological maelstrom which is life today...

    I suppose the point of my writing is to make up for the second fail , the INVESTIGATION, i believe part of the reason why we have stopped asking why , is because someone once told us, "You dont need to know" or "Thats above your paygrade.", now well we cannot control those forms of knowledge on the media such as TV and the lot the way we would like, i would like to propose that all reading this see this as the work not of a genius or an intellectual, but of that of , One who asks Why, I have been fortunate enough to do many investigations on what i myself and others thought to be of importance, and also thought to be available to the world, based on common logic, trend and of course , interest, no some topics may be a bore others not, i ask that all works be appreciated and be rectified or debated in a knowledgeable manner....

    Now then....lets go....and remember....there is no spoon...there is no problem box...if you ask ...Why.
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