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My name is Katherine LaLima.

I am an artist, aunt, daughter, lifelong learner, smartass, and wife. I was born on 18 September, 1980 in Summerville, South Carolina, USA. I live in Columbia, South Carolina, USA. I’ve told 25 stories. I joined Cowbird on December 25, 2011.

Who's got two thumbs and has finally aged enough to realize the value of hindsight? I have been a nationally-seen activist here in the capital of a quintessential southern state of the United, a sexual health and domestic violence educator, art historian and an adult industry professional (from behind the scenes, don't get excited). I have lost 100lbs even though exercise can cause me to go blind -- Multiple Sclerosis is a tricky fish biscuit that's left over 50 lesions on my brain and spinal cord. Every day is it's own kind of challenge, but I met a yoga instructor while she was on stage singing and we married in Manhattan a year later. We did not hyphenate our last names, since by both being named C/Katherine it would really only be funny for a day and then a tremendous legal eye-roll.

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